Tomorrow is Father's Day. It's my first with my little Grace Ann in the world. It is still hard to believe sometimes that I am the father of two. Being the father of two wonderful kiddos is a blessing in countless ways, but it has also taught me more about what life is about than anything else. The most basic fundamental lesson: Life is not about me. Not even remotely close. I knew that before Hudson and Grace Ann came along, but not really. Translating that from my head to my innards is another matter. But I feel like it's happening, although at a glacial pace. I am at least more aware of my selfishness. Of course, I am still dreadfully selfish. Lizzy knows (and likely so do many others) but she's too sweet to broadcast my faults.
So, on Father's Day, I say thanks. For the life lessons, for the love of my family, and for my father who taught me so much, including what it meant to be a father, and who blessed me in countless ways, except, tragically, with length of years on this earth. Love you, pops.
Above: At Fisherman's Wharf in San Francisco.
Below: The Best Man - at my wedding rehearsal, Jan. 2001.
7 comments:
Happy Father's Day to you. Everyone in this house is thankful for you...we are also thankful that you learned from the best. He would be very proud of you. We love you too Pops.
how sweet! what a great tribute! grace ann, hudson and elizabeth are very lucky to have you!
Happy Father's day to Chris. I never thought you were selfish, just cheap. haha ( no new tv for you!) The pictures of Mike are priceless. We all loved him too. You dad definitely made being a husband, father, grandfather, and friend seem so natural. Your children will see a glimpse of their Pops thru you. I do. Thanks for loving my daughter and grandchildren as you do. They are blessed! Love, Carol
What a great tribute Chris.
Well said.
-PB
Well, I'm late checking your blog this week and what a wonderful surprise to see your sweet tribute to your sweet Daddy. You are such a great husband and father - your Dad would be so very proud of you. You are also a sweet blessing to me - I love you son, Mom
Happy Father's Day Chris! You have a beautiful family and I am sure you are a wonderful dad!
What a thoughtful and loving way to honor your father. It makes me sad that he isn't here to be involved in your sweet family.
Emily Harriman
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